Sex and Soul Ties

“Guard your heart above all else, for it determines
the course of your life.” ~ Proverbs 4:23
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soul tiesIf you’ve had sex outside of marriage, you formed a soul tie—or more than one—that may be the cause of the emotional, psychological, and physical problems that are now tormenting you.

What is a soul tie? A soul tie is the spiritual link that is formed between two souls during sexual intercourse. First Corinthians 6:16 describes a soul tie: “And don’t you realize that if a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? For the Scriptures say, ‘The two are united into one.’ ” This uniting into one is a soul tie.

When the soul tie is created only in marriage, the link is lawful and the two souls involved are blessed because of their obedience to God’s commandment to have sex only within the context of the marriage relationship. But if the soul tie is created through sex outside of marriage, all kinds of serious problems result.

A soul tie created by sex outside of marriage is the unlawful tying together of two souls. This unlawful tying together causes spiritual bondage between the two souls for the rest of their lives unless the soul tie is broken through the power of Jesus Christ. Because of this spiritual bondage, the demonic spirits found in one person can transfer to the other person, and vice versa.

In today’s culture, we consider two people married when they have gone through the wedding ceremony. In Biblical times, two people were considered married once they had sexual intercourse. So, in God’s eyes, marriage results from sexual intercourse, not from a wedding ceremony.

Interestingly, in some states, when a couple wants to get a divorce, the judge will ask them if the marriage has been consummated. In other words, he will ask them if they have had sex yet because, according to the law in that state, a relationship becomes a marriage when the couple has had sex.

In light of this understanding, every time someone has sex with another person, she is married to that person. Not only that, but every time someone has sex with another person, her soul is tied to that other person’s soul.

So, if a girl has sex with five guys, in God’s eyes she has married five times and her soul has been tied to at least five other souls. In most cases, the number of soul ties is even greater since each of the guys may have had multiple sex partners.

Do the math. This means that a girl who engages in premarital sex with one guy can be tied to hundreds of other souls without even knowing it. Yet, all of those other souls are affecting her every day.

No wonder so many people are suffering so much emotional, psychological, and physical torment! They are in bondage to hundreds of other souls all of whom have demonic forces operating against them. And all of these demonic forces combined are operating against that one person who chose to have sex outside of marriage.

Consider this example. Let’s say a guy sleeps with a girl who is involved in the occult. Afterwards, he begins having nightmares and develops unreasonable fears. This guy, who, before sleeping with the girl was never afraid of anything, is now terrified of everything. Why? The reason is that the demons of the occult in the girl’s soul transferred to the guy’s soul when he slept with her.

Not a pretty picture, is it? Does it make you think twice about having sex outside of marriage?

Soul ties can also be caused by sexual abuse or unhealthful emotional relationships. In such cases, the same Jesus Christ who wants to deliver you from the sin of premarital sex will deliver you from the soul ties created through sexual abuse.

Remember this: Sex outside of marriage will destroy your soul. This is the reason that God forbids it. He is not out to keep you from pleasure. He is out to keep you from pain.

Questions: 1) Do you have to repent of unlawful soul ties? 2) Are you aware that Jesus Christ is the only way for you to break unlawful soul ties? 3) Will you ask for and receive His cleansing and restoration of your soul? In Psalm 23, He promises to restore your soul. The word “heart” is another word for “soul.”

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15 thoughts on “Sex and Soul Ties

  1. I have to ask do you people really believe this?
    How can souls if they exist be tied by sex for all it’s pleasure it’s just a biological method of reproduction. Just animals trying to make More animals before they die.

    • Hi, Edward,

      Thank you for your comment. Yes, people really believe this. 🙂 The reason is that God created us as three-part beings. We have a spirit (who we really are at the core); we have a soul (our mind, our will, and our emotions); and we live in a body. We are not just a physical body. If that were the case, then, yes, you would be right in saying that sex is just a means of reproduction. But we are higher than animals. We have thoughts and feelings, and we can speak.

      In Psalm 139, God tells you that He made you and that you are an awesome creation of His. I encourage you to read that Psalm. You are far more valuable than you think. You are not just a compilation of molecules. You are a man created in the very image of God.

      Thank You again for your comment. I deeply appreciate your taking the time to share your thoughts. Blessings to you, Edward!

  2. I’m doing a talk on soul ties and all I can gather frm it is a soul, mind will and emotional tie. Still no talk of spirit transfers. When King Saul disobeyed God the spirit of the Lord left him and he was given a spirit of torment. That had nothing to do with sex.Is there a scriptural evidance of this transference.? so far it seems more theoretical. Becoming one body even with a prostitute may make them married but nothing of a spiritual transfer. It’s a good example but where are the facts. Jesus delivered a legion and sent them to the pigs. They in turn ran off a cliff and died, where did the spirits go from there. Looking for a clean place. Spiritual settling comes through the mind by what one believes. I’m open to any scripture that supports your statements. Give me facts. Also it sounds like spiritual possession.

    • Hello, Mr. Rakowski:

      Thank you for your comment on my blog post titled “Sex and Soul Ties.” You are right that a soul tie is not a tie of spirit to spirit but, rather, of soul to soul. As you rightly state, the soul consists of the mind, the emotions, and the will.

      There is no spirit transfer in a soul tie in the sense that the spirit of one person is not transferred to the spirit of the other person involved in the relationships. One human spirit cannot be transferred to another human spirit.

      In an illicit sexual relationship, that which is transferred are the evil spirits oppressing one or both parties. Just as Jesus transferred the evil spirits from the demoniac’s soul to the souls of the pigs, so are the evil spirits harassing one person’s soul transferred to the soul of the other person with whom one has illicit sexual intercourse.

      The soul is connected to both the spirit and the body and is the bridge between them. The soul is also included in the concept of the “flesh” as described in the Bible. The flesh consists of the body and the soul.

      I hope this answers your very valid and excellent questions.

      Scripture verses on soul ties:

      In the two verses below, the word “flesh” includes the soul as well as the body:

      Ephesians 5: 31— “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

      Mark 10: 7-9: Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,[a] 8 and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh.

  3. Sex and Soul Ties;
    Hi Mary Ann. I just read your article on this subject and it is absolutely right on! Thank you for sharing it and using your gifts and talents for the body of Christ. You are such a blessing to the body of Christ.
    Dan Malone

  4. hey my name is nathan bethea i’ve just turned 18 and had sex for the 1st time ever, after having sex i felt this pain because I knew me and this person would not be together. it hurts me and my soul i fell so connected to the girl. I didnt know sex would feel or be like that. In this world of sin they teach sex as if its something fun to do, and once u do it, its not wat they say or looks like. im sorry to you and God for my sins, and i will not have sex again. but these things should be talked about and tought to us kids or young ones the right way. they know sex do this to people, that why they teach to younger ppl or virgins so they to can feel this pain, and now Im sad because i to feel it now. the demons that Ive gained tell me just do the same that was done to me to others, have sex with virgins take there souls, but i fight hard and refuse that why Im here today on this page. One question how do u break this tide, and can i become an virgin again?

    • Dear Nathan,

      Thank you so much for writing and for your courage in reaching out and admitting your sin.

      First of all, I want you to know that God loves you no matter what you have done. He hates sin but He loves you!

      I can tell from your post that you are very sorry for what you have done. God sees your heart and wants to forgive you. That is the reason He sent Jesus Christ to die for us—to pay the price for our sins. When a person is sorry for his sin, God will never turn him away.

      So let’s go to God now and ask Him for forgiveness. I will lead you in a simple prayer to ask God’s forgiveness and to receive Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord.

      Lord Jesus, I come to You just as I am. I admit that I have sinned by having sex outside of marriage. I am so very sorry and ask You to forgive me. I receive Your forgiveness and ask You, Jesus, to come into my life. I receive You as my Savior and my Lord. Take away this pain, Jesus. Make me what You created me to be. And use me to warn other young people that sin always brings pain but that following You, Jesus, always brings life. In Your Name I pray. Amen.

      If you prayed this prayer, Nathan, you are now born again and a child of God. I would suggest that you go to the girl involved and ask her forgiveness, too. Then ask God what to do about your relationship with her.

      You have made a very wise choice not to have sex again until you get married. God’s commandments are not to keep us from having fun but to protect us.

      To answer your question, you can break this evil tide only by the power of Jesus. If you sincerely prayed the prayer above and accepted Jesus Christ as your Savior, you now have His power in you to resist the devil. Whenever you are tempted, or whenever you hear the devil’s voice telling you to do something evil, just call out the Name of Jesus. Just say “JESUS, help me!” and He will.

      Also, while you cannot become a virgin again physically, you can become a virgin spiritually by obeying God’s commandment not to have sex until you are married. If you have confessed your sin to Jesus, you are now clean and forgiven. He says this in the Bible, in 1 John 1: 9: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” So, if you have confessed your sin to God, He will keep His promise to forgive you and to cleanse you.

      Please let me know if you have prayed the prayer to receive Jesus as your Savior and Lord. Get yourself a Bible and start reading it every day. Start in the Gospel of John, in the second half of the Bible. Also, pray every day. Prayer is just talking to Jesus as you would talk to your best friend because Jesus is your Best Friend. 🙂

      Yes, you are right that young people need to be taught these things. Maybe God will use you to teach them what you have learned the hard way. One wonderful thing about God is that He takes our mess and turns it into our message! 🙂

      I look forward to hearing from you, Nathan. Meanwhile, I am praying for you.

      Blessings,

      Dr. MaryAnn

    • Nathan, thank you so much for your valued post. Yes, I know how to help people in the soul restoration process. I am a Certified Life Coach and have been trained in Healing and Deliverance Ministry. If you would like more information about coaching, please go to this link: https://maryanndiorio.com/writing-services/life-coaching-2

      Otherwise, I would simply suggest that you read my future posts on this topic. I think you will gather sufficient information to meet your needs.

      If you have any further questions, please do not hesitate to ask.

      Many blessings to you!

      Dr. MaryAnn

  5. My wife had an affair. She slept with her old boyfriend. I had a would tie for her infidelity i had no knowledge of. I found weird thoughts of lust and had issues and could not understand why? She ended up divorcing me and i had a real issue getting over the thoughts of her in sex acts with the other guy. I asked God to take away the would tie with my former wife and i was instantly healed from the pain and thoughts of sex with her and her boyfriend haunting me. If you are not the one cheating and you don’t break the soul ties to a cheating spouse you can still suffer consequences you didn’t cause.