Are You Struggling with Performance Syndrome?

by Dr. MaryAnn Diorio

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Hello and Happy Day! This is Dr. MaryAnn Diorio, novelist and life coach, welcoming you to another episode of Winning with the Word. Today is March 22, 2021, and this is Episode #7 of Series 2021. This episode is titled “Are You Struggling with Performance Syndrome?”

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The natural inclination of man is to perform in order to be approved. As we observe the many religions of the world, we notice that, except for Christianity, every religion teaches its followers that they must earn their salvation by doing good works. Only Christianity teaches that we can never earn our salvation. That is the reason Jesus Christ earned it for us and gave it to us as a love gift. The only thing we must do is accept His gift.

In the Book of Galatians, the Apostle Paul addresses this topic of trying to earn our salvation. After teaching the Galatians how to be saved through faith in Christ, Paul now finds them going back to their old ways of trying to earn God’s approval through their good works. Let’s listen in on what Paul says:

“You foolish Galatians! Who has bewitched you? Before your very eyes, Jesus Christ was clearly portrayed as crucified. I would like to learn just one thing from you: Did you receive the Spirit by observing the law, or by believing what you heard? Are you so foolish? After beginning with the Spirit, are you now trying to attain your goal by human effort?”

Paul was distressed that the Christians of Galatia had reverted back to their old ways of thinking and acting. 

When we are born again, we receive God’s approval because of what Jesus did for us on Calvary, not because of anything we did. This is called grace. The first chapter of the Book of Ephesians, verse 6, reveals this truth to us: “He [God the Father] made us accepted in the Beloved {Jesus Christ].” (Brackets mine). 

Yet, so often, after we are born again, we find ourselves falling back into trying to earn God’s approval through our good works. I call this the performance syndrome, and I would venture to say that we have all been guilty of it at one time or another, especially those of us who grew up in particularly legalistic environments.

Most of the time, we are unaware that this happened. Hence, Paul’s use of the word “bewitched.” “Bewitched” means to be under a spell. Strong’s Concordance defines “bewitched” as follows: “to bring evil on one by feigning praise or an evil eye; to fascinate by false representations; to lead into evil doctrine.” 

When one is bewitched, one is taken mentally captive and is unaware of his mental captivity. When we are bewitched, we are unaware that motives other than God’s love have begun to corrupt our thinking. We begin to strive to earn God’s approval. We become tense and fear-filled, wondering if we’ve measured up. We often feel condemned when we mess up. 

So, Paul calls the Galatians “foolish” not in the sense that they lacked intelligence, but in the sense that they should have known better than to revert from a grace mentality to a works mentality. Paul Himself had taught them the truth about salvation, the truth that they had been saved only by faith. But they failed to live according to that truth.

Instead, they were acting as though they had been cast under a spell. Paul did not mean this literally, of course. He was referring to the culture of Galatia. The Galatians believed in what they called the evil eye. They believed that if someone looked into the evil eye, that person would be placed under a spell.

So Paul is warning the Galatians to stop looking into the evil eye of the doctrine that taught they could be saved by their works. Instead, Paul admonished the Galatians to keep their eyes focused steadfastly on Jesus. When we see Jesus clearly before us, we won’t be deceived.

The Galatians were guilty of performance syndrome.” Performance syndrome describes not so much the actions we perform as much as it describes the motives with which we perform them. We can perform the same actions because we love God or because we want to earn His love. The actions are the same, but the motives are different. 

Performance syndrome usually starts in childhood. It starts with lies we accept as truth, lies that lodge in our subconscious mind and affect us throughout our lives, unless we get rid of them. 

What are some of these lies? Here are a few we can start believing in childhood:

__If I don’t behave, Daddy and Mommy won’t love me.
__If I don’t do well in school, my parents won’t accept me.
__If my parents argue–or get divorced–it’s my fault.

Lies such as these become embedded in our subconscious mind. We begin to connect love and acceptance with performance. If we perform well, we will be loved and accepted. If we don’t perform well, we won’t.

After we’re born again, we begin to do the same thing with God. We begin to view God as we viewed our parents. We begin to think that in order to be loved and accepted by God, we must perform for Him. In other words, we need to earn His love and acceptance by what we do.  In short, we believe we must be perfect.

When performance syndrome rules our lives, we have no peace. We constantly strive to meet a standard, not realizing that the standard we are trying to meet can never be met by any human being.

But, praise the Lord, that standard was met in full by Jesus Christ. When we receive Him into our lives, we receive perfect, unconditional love and acceptance.

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“Jesus Christ earned our salvation for us and gave it to us as a love gift. The only thing we must do is accept His gift.” 
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Have you received Jesus Christ into your life? If not, I urge you to do so now. He will free you from performance syndrome, perfectionism, and ever other form of bondage in your life. Pray this simple prayer with me now:

Lord Jesus, I want to be free of performance syndrome and perfectionism. But You are the only One Who can set me free. So, I ask You now to come into my life. I receive You as my personal Savior and the Lord of my life. Forgive me of my sins. Create in me a clean heart. In Your Precious Name, I ask and receive. Amen.

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Finally, ask the Lord to lead you to the church of His choice for you where you can learn about Him and have fellowship and encouragement with other Christ-Followers. It is critically important in these last days to fellowship with other believers who are mature in Christ and can guide you as you grow in Him.

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Are Lies Hurting Your Heart?

ARE LIES HURTING YOUR HEART?

“Guard your heart above all else, for it determines
the course of your life.” ~ Proverbs 4:23
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Scales, advantage truthDo you know that the health of your heart depends on your believing the truth? The more truth you believe, the healthier your heart (soul) will be.

Not only does the health of your heart depend on your believing the truth, but the degree of freedom you experience in life depends on your believing the truth. 

Truth and freedom are intimately and inseparably intertwined. Jesus said, “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free” (John 8:32).  Have you ever wondered why we in America have experienced so much freedom? It is due to the fact that our Founding Fathers believed the truth and built our country on it.

Have you also wondered why we in America are now losing many of our freedoms? The reason is that over the last sixty years or so, we have gradually been moving away from the truth.

What is truth? Prominent theologian RC Sproul says this: “Truth is defined as that which corresponds to reality as perceived by God.”  Apologist Ravi Zacharias adds that “The single most important question any human being can ask is the question, ‘What is truth’?”

So, again I ask you, “What is truth?” Do you know the answer to that question? Have you ever asked yourself that question? The answer you give has serious implications for your heart.

Pontius Pilate asked Jesus the same question just before our Lord’s crucifixion. But Pilate asked mockingly, not with a sincere desire to know the truth.

Do you have a sincere desire to know the truth? This question was posed to me 45 years ago.  At the time, I had a burning desire to be free of the bondage in my life. When I discovered that knowing the truth would make me free, I began a life-long journey to know truth. What I discovered is that Truth is not a thing. Truth is a Person, and that Person is Jesus Christ.

Jesus is Truth Personified. To know Him is to know Truth. To know Jesus is to know Freedom.

If there is any bondage in your life, you can be absolutely sure that there is a lie behind it. Knowing Jesus will set you free from the lie. 

So, our primary task in life is to pursue Jesus. As we discover Him, He will shatter the lies that have us bound. As those lies crumble, our freedom will grow, as will our love for Him Who set us free.

Do you want to know the truth about who you are in Christ? If so, read YOU WERE MADE FOR GREATNESS! and discover how to recognize and destroy the lies in your life.  You Were made for Greatness

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Do You Have a Demon?

“Guard your heart above all else, for it determines
the course of your life.” ~ Proverbs 4:23
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Have you ever wondered if you have a demon? Or more than one? If so, read on.

Many people think that demons are figments of one’s imagination and nothing more. The truth is that demons exist and they are hard at work to destroy you.  One of their most powerful weapons is deception, especially the deception that they do not exist.

Let me begin by saying that if you are not a Christian, you are surely being influenced by demons. Scripture tells us in 2 Corinthians 4:4 that “Satan, the god of this evil world, has blinded the minds of those who don’t believe, so they are unable to see the glorious light of the Good News that is shining upon them. They don’t understand the message we preach about the glory of Christ, who is the exact likeness of God.” So if you do not believe that Jesus Christ is the Savior of the world, and if you have not made Him the Lord of your life, then you are in bondage to demons.

But what if you are a believer in Jesus Christ, can you have a demon? The answer is yes, but you cannot be possessed by a demon as an unbeliever can.  Demons oppress and possess.  Unbelievers can be oppressed and possessed by a demon. Believers can only be oppressed by a demon.

How can you know if you are being oppressed or possessed by a demon?  Here are a few questions to ask yourself:

1) Have you ever been involved in the occult, including horoscopes, Ouija boards, tarot cards, etc.?

2) Have you ever used drugs or alcohol to escape problems?

3) Have you ever thought about or tried to kill yourself?

4) Have you been sexually abused through molestation, incest, or rape?

5) Do you have violent outbursts of uncontrollable anger?

6) Do you cut yourself or hurt yourself in any way (e.g., through starvation, overeating, binging)?

7) Do you hear voices in your head that tell you to do wrong things?

8) Are you always broke no matter how hard you work or how much you give to God’s work?

9) Do you commit immoral or illegal acts against your better judgment?

10) Have you ever made a pact with Satan to give you something in exchange for your life or your devotion to him?

If you answered affirmatively to one or more of these questions, you may have a demon that needs to be expelled. 

In my next blog post, I will talk about the way to get rid of demons.  As a trained and experienced healing and deliverance minister, I have helped others be set free from demonic bondage.  I will share with you what you need to do so that you, too, can be set free once and for all.

Questions: 1) Do you think you may have a demon? 2) If so, how do you know? 3) Do you believe that Jesus Christ wants to deliver you from all demons?

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